The Malay Wedding guide.
- The Malay Wedding
- Mar 1, 2025
- 2 min read
Welcome to our very first blog. We hope that our blog will be useful for future couple.
The Ultimate Wedding Guide: From Planning to “I Do”
Planning a wedding is an exciting journey—but it can also feel overwhelming. From setting a budget to choosing the perfect décor, every decision plays a role in creating a meaningful and unforgettable day. This wedding guide is designed to help you navigate the process with clarity, confidence, and joy.
1. Start with a Clear Vision
Before diving into details, sit down as a couple and discuss:
Your wedding style (traditional, modern, minimalist, luxury)
Estimated guest count
Preferred wedding date or season
Overall vibe (intimate, grand, relaxed, formal)
Having a shared vision will make every decision easier moving forward.
2. Set a Realistic Budget
Your budget will guide almost every aspect of your wedding. Allocate funds wisely across key elements such as:
Venue
Catering
Attire
Décor
Wedding necessities such as dulang hantaran/ cheque hantaran/sireh dara/bunga pahar, hand bouquet and many more.
Photography & videography
Invitations & door gifts
Tip: Always set aside a small buffer for unexpected last minute expenses.
3. Choose the Right Venue
The venue sets the tone for your entire celebration. Consider:
Combined event
Indoor vs outdoor
Accessibility for guests
Capacity and layout
Availability of prayer rooms (optional)
Tips: Book early—popular venues are often secured months in advance.
4. Wedding Attire & Styling
Your wedding outfit should reflect your personality and culture.
Bride: Baju kurung, kebaya gown, or custom couture
Groom: Baju melayu, suit, or traditional attire
Accessories, makeup, and hairstyle complete the look
Tips: Schedule fittings early to avoid last-minute stress.
5. Hantaran & Wedding Details
Hantaran (wedding trays) are more than tradition—they’re a visual statement.
Choose:
A cohesive colour palette
Elegant trays and florals
Meaningful gifts with modern presentation such cheque hantaran
Well-curated details elevate your wedding aesthetics beautifully.
6. Invitations & Guest Experience
Your invitation is the first impression of your wedding.
Options include:
Printed cards
PDF or digital invitations
Custom-designed layouts
Tips: Ensure all key information is clear: date, time, venue, dress code, and RSVP details.
7. Capture the Memories
Photography and videography preserve your most precious moments.
Look for professionals whose style resonates with you—whether candid, editorial, or cinematic.
These memories will last a lifetime.
8. Enjoy the Journey
Amid all the planning, remember why you started—celebrating love.
Take breaks, ask for help, and trust your vendors.
Your wedding doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to be meaningful.
Final Thoughts
Every wedding is unique, just like every love story. With thoughtful planning and the right support, your special day will be everything you dreamed of and more.
Signing off.
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